AuDHD Flourishing 52 You Were Not a Bad Child
Jun 8, 2024
This discussion dives deep into the transformative journey of self-love, sparked by meaningful therapy conversations. It uncovers the complexities of childhood emotions, revealing feelings of neglect and the crucial role of self-compassion. The exploration of parent-child dynamics, especially within autism, sheds light on generational trauma and emotional bonds. Ultimately, it emphasizes redefining one's worth and the healing power of reparenting, reminding everyone that they were never 'bad' children but deserving of love and support.
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Difficult Child vs. Unskilled Parents
- Mattia Murray had internalized the belief she was a difficult child.
- Therapy helped her realize her parents may have lacked the skills to parent her effectively.
Autistic Babies' Cries
- A study revealed autistic babies' cries are different, often perceived as annoying by parents.
- Mattia Murray connects this to a photo of her crying as a baby and her mother's distant demeanor.
Distant Mother
- Mattia Murray found a baby picture of herself crying, with her mother holding her at a distance.
- This, coupled with the study about autistic cries, resonated with her strained relationship with her mother.