Sex Stories

329 | Surviving Torture Porn & Writing to Heal: Kelly Jean’s Update

Jan 13, 2026
In this captivating discussion, Kelly Jean—a performance artist, sound healer, and former sex worker—shares her journey of healing from complex PTSD. She dives into her choice of celibacy, emphasizing self-connection and boundaries. Kelly recounts a playful, surprise hookup that sparked joy without shame, while revealing how breathwork and somatic practices deepened her self-love. She also offers insight into using BDSM as a healing tool, and her aspirations for honest non-monogamous relationships. Her story is a testament to resilience and reclaiming one's erotic self.
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ADVICE

Follow Your Body’s Felt Sense

  • Do check in with your body and respond to felt-sense signals before making sexual or relationship decisions.
  • Say yes to genuine yeses and clearly voice nos to protect your energy and boundaries.
INSIGHT

Celibacy As A Healing Container

  • Celibacy can be a deliberate container to process trauma and rediscover self beyond roles in relationships.
  • Pulling back allowed Kelly Jean to reclaim strength, creativity, and clarity for writing and healing.
ADVICE

Unmask To Receive Real Love

  • Practice clear, honest communication and reduce masking to receive genuine connection and conserve emotional energy.
  • Update behaviors as you grow and prioritize authenticity over pleasing others.
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