Appealing to the Swing States + How to Be a Better Negotiator
Jul 25, 2024
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Former FBI negotiator Chris Voss and reporter Jessica Tarlov discuss Biden's exit, Kamala Harris's potential, and negotiation tactics. Topics include media manipulation, navigating conflict zones, active listening techniques, and managing relationships with opposing political views.
Actively listen and show genuine interest in personal relationships for better connections.
Showing empathy and taking the perspective of the other party can lead to successful negotiations.
Deep dives
Focusing on Active Listening in Relationships
In personal relationships, the key is to actively listen and show genuine interest in what the other person is saying. By mirroring their perspectives or repeating back key points, you demonstrate that you are attentive and open to understanding their views. This approach can break down communication barriers and foster better connections with your spouse, children, or even friends.
Empathy and Perspective-Taking in Negotiations
In negotiations, showing empathy and taking the perspective of the other party can be powerful tools. By understanding the motivations and viewpoints of the other side, you can build collaboration and trust. This can lead to more successful negotiations, whether it's about salary, job responsibilities, or any other aspect of professional interactions.
Importance of Separating Politics from Personal Relationships
Separating politics from personal relationships is crucial for maintaining connections and fostering understanding. Instead of letting political differences dictate relationships, focus on the qualities that make a person enjoyable to be around. By appreciating shared interests and common bonds, you can navigate diverse political views without alienating friends or partners.
Jessica Tarlov joins us again to discuss what happens now that Biden is out of the race. We hear why we should be bullish on Kamala Harris, be sad about the way Biden had to bow out, and get excited about the election. Follow Jessica’s reporting @JessicaTarlov.
We’re then joined by Chris Voss, the former lead FBI hostage negotiator and bestselling author of, “Never Split The Difference.” He shares how negotiation plays a role in all aspects of our lives.
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