
Therapy Chat 251: Perfectly Hidden Depression with Dr. Margaret Rutherford
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Nov 6, 2020 A conversation about “perfectly hidden depression,” where perfectionism and a polished exterior can conceal loneliness, painful emotions, and despair. Dr. Margaret Rutherford discusses the patterns behind this experience, the role of shame and family expectations, and why vulnerability can be difficult, drawing on her book’s practical exercises.
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Introduction
00:00 • 2min
Perfectly Hidden Depression
01:38 • 2min
How to Be a Successful Therapist
03:49 • 2min
The Perfectly Hidden Depressed Person
06:08 • 3min
Perfectionism and Depression
09:36 • 3min
The 10 Characteristics of Perfectly Hidden Depression
12:23 • 4min
How to Express Painful Emotions
16:32 • 2min
How to Deal With Anxiety Disorders
18:57 • 2min
Why I Love Therapy Notes
20:34 • 4min
The Difference Between Classic Depression and Smiling Depression
24:11 • 3min
How to Survive Perfectly Hidden Depression
26:42 • 2min
The Perceived Expectations of Others
28:23 • 2min
The Imposter Syndrome
30:17 • 3min
How to Guide Yourself to Success
33:30 • 3min
How to Be More Comfortable With Vulnerability
36:54 • 3min
How to Keep Your Practice Organized With Therapy Notes
40:16 • 2min
