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Hidden Brain

Why Trying Too Hard Can Backfire On You

Jun 3, 2024
52:17
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In this conversation with philosopher Ted Slingerland, he explores the dangers of overthinking and the benefits of letting go. He discusses how excessive striving can backfire, offering insights into the balance between intuition and analysis. Ted humorously shares dating blunders, tying them to the importance of authenticity in connections. The discussion highlights the concept of 'wu-wei' or effortless action in achieving a state of flow, revealing how relaxing into experiences often leads to better outcomes in life, creativity, and relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Excessive effort can hinder performance, highlighting the importance of finding a balance between striving and letting go in various pursuits.
  • Engaging in activities with a mindset of effortless action, as emphasized by 'wu wei,' can lead to natural success and authentic connections.

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The Paradox of Effort in Achieving Success

Grind, practice, and determination are traditionally viewed as keys to success, yet there are numerous scenarios where excessive effort may actually hinder rather than help performance. For instance, academic research highlights that while conscientiousness is a positive predictor of success, situations exist where trying too hard can diminish outcomes. This paradox often manifests in realms like athletics and creative pursuits, where the pressure to excel leads to stress and overthinking. Recognizing that sometimes relaxed effortlessness, rather than trying hard, can lead to better results is crucial for achieving success.

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