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Why Trying Too Hard Can Backfire On You

Hidden Brain

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The Ups and Downs of Dating Efforts

This chapter humorously recounts the speaker's awkward backfired attempts at dating in San Francisco during their early 20s. Through various strategies and failings, they learn that genuine connections often stem from authenticity rather than forced efforts. The chapter contrasts these dating experiences with lessons learned in sports, emphasizing that relaxation can lead to better outcomes.

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