In a masterclass on love, attorney Faith Jenkins discusses the leading causes of divorce and the importance of understanding love languages. Divorce lawyer James Sexton stresses resolving issues collaboratively to maintain strong relationships. Psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb shares insights on finding love and highlights the importance of embracing change. They explore authenticity, compatibility, and the necessity of personal growth in relationships while encouraging listeners to confront their past for healthier connections.
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Spotting Subtle Red Flags
Look for subtle red flags in your partner's behavior, like small lies or inconsistencies.
These can indicate bigger issues down the road, such as inability to be their true selves.
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Compatibility and Growth
Compatibility is not static; it's about commitment to growing together.
Life changes constantly, so partners must be dedicated to evolving together.
question_answer ANECDOTE
Lack of Growth Leading to Divorce
A husband's hurtful comments about his wife's weight gain caused divorce.
This shows how lack of growth and unkindness can damage a relationship.
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In 'How to Stay in Love,' James J. Sexton shares his expertise from years of dealing with divorces to help couples build and preserve lasting relationships. He emphasizes the importance of communication and intentional relationship maintenance, drawing from real-life examples of what can go wrong in marriages. Despite his involvement in divorce cases, Sexton remains a romantic who believes in the transformative power of love.
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed
Lori Gottlieb
In 'Maybe You Should Talk to Someone,' Lori Gottlieb presents a dual narrative where she recounts her experiences as a psychotherapist working with various patients and as a patient herself, seeking therapy after a sudden and devastating breakup. The book introduces several patients, including a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with terminal cancer, a senior citizen contemplating ending her life, and a young woman struggling with alcoholism and poor relationship choices. Through these stories, Gottlieb sheds light on the therapeutic process, highlighting the complexities of human emotions, the importance of connection, and the universal quest for meaning and inner reconciliation. The book is known for its candid and humorous approach, offering insights into the human condition and the transformative power of therapy.
The five love languages
singles edition
Gary Chapman
In this book, Dr. Gary Chapman outlines five general ways that romantic partners express and experience love, which he calls 'love languages'. By learning these languages, individuals can discover their unique love languages and those of their loved ones, leading to deeper and richer levels of intimacy. The book includes practical steps and a love language assessment to help strengthen relationships. It emphasizes that people tend to give love in the way they prefer to receive it, and understanding these differences can improve communication and relationship satisfaction.
Marry him
The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough
Lori Gottlieb
In Marry Him, Lori Gottlieb explores the dilemma many women face in reconciling their desire for a husband and family with overly complicated lists of must-haves and deal-breakers. Gottlieb shares her own journey in search of romantic fulfillment, gathering insights from marital researchers, matchmakers, dating coaches, behavioral economists, neuropsychologists, sociologists, couples therapists, divorce lawyers, and clergy. The book emphasizes the importance of focusing on qualities like kindness, values, compatibility, empathy, and communication over superficial traits.
Today’s episode is a masterclass around relationships. Three experts on love & relationships share their perspectives and advice for why your relationships aren’t working out the way you want and all the things to look for in a compatible partner.
In this episode,
Faith Jenkins, attorney & author, elaborates on the main causes of divorce and shows us how we can better understand our partner’s love language.
James Sexton, divorce lawyer & author, teaches how we can solve the problems in our relationships and not be victimized by the idea of divorce.
Lori Gottlieb, psychotherapist & author, shares the truth about finding love and why its so important to embrace change in your relationship.
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