122. How To Be More Confident and Calm in Your Communication: Managing the "ABC’s" of Communication Anxiety
Jan 2, 2024
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Christian Wheeler, an expert in getting comfortable being uncomfortable, shares research-backed techniques to beat nervousness in the moment. Topics discussed include reframing anxiety as a sign of caring, using breathing techniques to quell anxiety, warming up before communication challenges, understanding stress can be good for us, and reframing our mindset. Matt also provides instructions on how to create an Anxiety Management Plan for better communication.
Mindfulness techniques can help acknowledge and reframe negative feelings in high-stakes communication situations.
Deep breathing exercises and physical warm-ups can reduce stress and promote a sense of calmness before communicating.
Deep dives
Effective Symptoms: Acknowledging and reframing negative feelings
One effective technique for managing anxiety in high-stakes communication situations is to acknowledge and reframe negative feelings. Mindfulness techniques can be used to acknowledge and accept these feelings as normal and not defining factors. By becoming aware of your feelings and their impact on you, you can reframe your negative thoughts in a more positive way. This creates a sense of agency and helps you feel more comfortable and confident when communicating.
Behavioral Symptoms: Deep Breathing and Physical Warm-ups
To address behavioral anxiety symptoms, deep breathing exercises can be effective in reducing stress and promoting a sense of calmness. Inhaling through the nose, taking in a little extra air, and exhaling slowly can slow down heart rate and speaking rate, helping you feel calmer. Additionally, physical warm-ups, like stretching and exercises, can help calm your nerves and prepare you for effective communication.
Cognitive Symptoms: Reframing anxiety and using positive affirmations
Cognitive symptoms, such as forgetfulness and negative self-talk, can be managed by reframing anxiety as excitement. By shifting our mindset and focusing on the positive aspects of stress, we can feel less nervous and more excited about communicating. Moreover, adopting positive affirmations like 'I have value to add' can redirect our thoughts and help us approach speaking engagements with a more positive mindset. These cognitive techniques can contribute to more confident and effective communication.
Research-backed techniques on how to beat nervousness in the moment.
In this episode, Matt uses clips from experts from previous Think Fast Talk Smart episodes to provide you with several communication anxiety management techniques to help you feel more comfortable and confident when you communicate. And as a guide to help us learn these techniques, he introduces the ABCs of anxiety management.