The Dr. Hyman Show

How to Quit Being a Nice-aholic

May 26, 2023
Explore the challenges of people-pleasing and the importance of honest communication. Discover actionable steps to express your true feelings while navigating difficult conversations. Dive into techniques like active listening and nonviolent communication to strengthen relationships. Learn personal insights and strategies that transform the way you connect with others, fostering healthier dialogues and emotional well-being.
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ANECDOTE

Childhood Origins of People-Pleasing

  • Dr. Hyman developed people-pleasing tendencies due to a challenging childhood with a rageaholic stepfather.
  • He learned to prioritize pacification over truth-telling to avoid conflict.
INSIGHT

People-Pleasing as Manipulation

  • People-pleasing, while seemingly harmless, can be a manipulative form of relating.
  • It aims to control others' reactions instead of fostering authentic connections based on truth.
ADVICE

Learning Difficult Conversations

  • Learn how to have difficult conversations; resources like "Nonviolent Communication" can help.
  • Honest communication is crucial for healthy relationships.
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