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The hidden power of introverts: How to thrive without changing who you are | Susan Cain (author of "Quiet")

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Mar 16, 2025

Susan Cain, author of the bestselling book "Quiet: The Power of Introverts," shares her insights on thriving as an introvert in the workplace. She defines introversion, dispelling myths, and presents tactics for success while staying true to oneself. Cain addresses strategies for navigating challenging meetings and networking events, and emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries. She also offers advice for managers on fostering inclusive environments for introverts and discusses how to nurture confidence in introverted children.

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Introversion-Extroversion Spectrum

Introversion and extroversion are distinct strengths, not a binary.
Our culture often overvalues extroverted traits, but both are equally important.

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Find Introverted Role Models

Find successful introverts in your field to see that success doesn't require extroversion.
Embrace your authentic self for true career power.

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Two-Question Introversion Test

Ask yourself: Does socializing energize or drain you?
How would you spend a free weekend, and with whom?

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