Heart of Dating S13 Ep237: No Such Thing As A Soulmate with Deb Fileta
Aug 14, 2024
Deb Fileta, an expert on cultivating healthy, God-centered relationships, joins the hosts to debunk the soulmate myth. She emphasizes the importance of soul care and self-awareness in relationships, helping listeners recognize personal wholeness to avoid codependency. They explore the role of early life experiences in shaping adult relationships and discuss the balance between individual needs and mutual support. Insights on managing emotions and fostering community through personal growth also highlight the dynamic conversation.
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Soulmates, a Faux Idea of Love
- Deb Fileta dislikes the term "soulmate" because it implies incompleteness without a partner.
- She believes healthy relationships require individual wholeness first.
Codependency and Childhood Patterns
- Deb shares how childhood experiences, like being a "fixer" in a chaotic home, can lead to codependent dating patterns.
- She explains how individuals might subconsciously seek out chaos because it feels familiar.
Finding Balance in Relationships
- Avoid extreme relationship dynamics where you only give or only receive.
- Strive for balanced, mutual relationships where both partners contribute and have needs met.