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How to Change Your Personality with Olga Khazan

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Apr 28, 2025
In this conversation with Olga Khazan, a writer at The Atlantic and author of 'Me, But Better', she shares her journey of transforming her personality traits. Olga discusses how intentional behavior changes led her to become more extroverted and agreeable. They explore concepts like the Big Five personality traits, the influence of mindfulness and meditation, and how external factors like psychedelics can reshape self-perception. Additionally, they dive into the dynamics of parenthood and its impact on personality evolution.
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ANECDOTE

Olga's Personality Change Experiment

  • Olga Khazan worked on changing her extroversion by socializing extensively and taking improv classes.
  • To reduce neuroticism, she practiced meditation, and to increase agreeableness, she took anger management and conversation workshops plus volunteered.
INSIGHT

Trying New Traits Feels Authentic

  • Acting contrary to your believed personality trait can lead to feeling happier and more authentic.
  • Sometimes your ingrained self-view doesn't match what actually makes you feel good.
ADVICE

Change Behavior to Update Self-Concept

  • Change behavior first to shift your self-concept naturally.
  • Repeated positive experiences in new behaviors can update negative beliefs about yourself.
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