Raising Good Humans S2 Ep 22: Fair Play and The Practical, Time and Anxiety Saving System For Couples To Run The Household
Oct 22, 2021
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Blueberries Moment Sparks Change
- Eve Rodsky describes crying in her car after a seemingly small text about blueberries triggered exhaustion and overwhelm.
- That moment became the catalyst for her research into unequal domestic labor and the Fair Play system.
Three Pillars Of Fairness
- Rodsky identifies three pillars for fair relationships: boundaries, systems, and communication.
- She found couples who align expectations on these pillars reported greater fairness and thriving relationships.
Claim Permission To Be Unavailable
- Redefine boundaries as permission to be unavailable from your roles, not just small personal rituals.
- Demand equal time value for women by claiming the right to be unavailable and protect that time.