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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting

1959: Feeling Unloved: “You Don’t Love Me, Nobody Loves Me” by Vironika Tugaleva on What We Tell Ourselves About Love

Nov 11, 2023
11:15
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Vironika Tugaleva explores self-love's impact on relationships, challenging negative self-perception. Talks about obsessive self-modification, distorted relationships, and finding acceptance. Reflects on past relationships and the importance of self-realization. Emphasizes accountability in relationships and how it empowers individuals.
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Quick takeaways

  • Self-love should not rely on others, as it is an internal process.
  • Blaming others for our pain perpetuates self-destructive behaviors and prevents personal growth.

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The Impact of Negative Self-Talk

Veronica shares her experience of struggling with self-loathing and the belief that others were responsible for her pain. She chronicles her journey of obsessive self-modification and how the distraction factor would fade, leading to deeper self-destructive behaviors. She realized that her inner critic was the source of her suffering and that blaming others only perpetuated it.

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