

Terry Crews On Overcoming Toxic Toughness & Finding True Power EP 1258
Apr 25, 2022
Terry Crews, a versatile actor, author, and former NFL player, shares his inspiring journey from a troubled childhood to finding true power. He discusses the toxic definition of toughness he grew up with and how vulnerability is essential for true strength. Terry opens up about his experiences with anger and trauma while emphasizing the importance of humility and self-acceptance. He also highlights the transformative effects of therapy and the significance of building emotional intimacy in relationships, showcasing how personal growth leads to genuine connections.
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Flint, Michigan, and the Need for Guidance
- Growing up in Flint, Michigan, during economic decline and the crack epidemic fueled Terry's competitive drive and anger.
- He made a pact with his best friend to share life lessons due to the lack of guidance from older men in their community.
Source of Rage
- Terry's rage stemmed from trying to control an uncontrollable environment, including his parents' destructive behaviors.
- He felt pressure to feign religious experiences, furthering his internal conflict and leading him to develop a dual persona.
Dual Lives and Creative Expression
- Terry developed two distinct lives: one for church and one for the outside world, as many activities were forbidden by his religion.
- He channeled his creativity through drawing, inspired by movies he was not allowed to watch, and mimicking comic book art.