A guide to self discipline and the science behind habits, good and bad
Aug 25, 2023
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Ryan Holiday and Katy Milkman discuss the history and power of self-discipline, exploring its significance in stoic philosophy and effective leadership. They highlight the importance of having a clear purpose and provide practical tips for staying disciplined in daily life. They also delve into the science of habits, discussing how they are formed and strategies for changing them.
Habits are formed through repetition and rewards, leading to automatic engagement in the behavior.
Consistent context cues and rewards are crucial for forming good habits.
Deep dives
Forming Habits through Repeat Reward Cycles
Habits are behaviors that are repeated without much effort. When a behavior is repeated and rewarded, it becomes automatic and ingrained. The science suggests that there is a habit loop, where behaviors are reinforced through rewards, leading to automatic and effortless engagement in the behavior. Bad habits can form without intention, but deliberate efforts and frictions can help break them. Commitment devices, such as setting stakes or putting money on the line, can also aid in breaking bad habits.
Building Good Habits: Consistency and Rewards
To form good habits, consistent context cues and rewards are important. Consistency in the context, such as location or reminders, helps build the habit by creating associations. Rewards can reinforce and motivate the behavior. Tracking progress or celebrating small successes can aid in habit formation. Repetition is key to ingraining the habit, so taking advantage of bursts of motivation and consistently engaging in the behavior helps solidify it as automatic.
Myth of the 30-Day Habit Formation
Contrary to popular belief, there is no magic number of days to form a habit. Research has debunked the 30-day habit formation myth. The time it takes to form a habit varies depending on the behavior and context. Some habits may take a few months, while others may develop in a week or two. Basing habit formation on personal enjoyment of the behavior rather than a specific timeline or number of days can be more effective.
Tips for Creating Healthy Habits
When trying to create healthy habits, focus on making the behavior enjoyable and rewarding. By finding ways to make the habit pleasant, it becomes easier to repeat and maintain. Making the behavior social or linking it to something enjoyable can increase motivation. Temptation bundling, where a fun activity is paired with a less enjoyable behavior, can also be effective. The key is to find ways to make the habit enjoyable and something to look forward to.
Writer and expert on stoic philosophy Ryan Holiday explores the history and power of self discipline. Behavioral scientist and professor at the University of Pennsylvania's Wharton School Katy Milkman explains the science behind forming habits.
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