ReThinking

The science of healthy relationships with John and Julie Gottman

Dec 13, 2022

44:53

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Julie Gottman

John Gottman

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Types of Relationship Communication: the Gottmans and marriage.

03:32

Ask profound questions and find compromise

03:49

Understanding Each Other's Triggers

02:37

Rethinking - The Best Way to Get Better at Fighting

01:21

Introduction

2min

Studying Relationships

2min

The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

4min

The Horsemen and Stone-Walling

6min

When Do I Get Critical? What Do You Need From Me?

2min

Do You Have a Knowing Doing Gap?

3min

How to Process a Regrettable Incident

3min

The Side Effects of Understanding Each Other's Triggers

6min

Divorce Rates Go Down During the Pandemic

2min

10.

Are There Any Benefits of Contempt in Relationships?

3min

11.

The Love Prescription - When There's No Conflict

2min

12.

You Want Me to Be Someone I'm Not?

2min

13.

How to Bring in Humor When You're Mad at the Person

2min

14.

Love Prescription - You Can't Force Humor

2min

15.

How to Deal With Difficult Issues in a Relationship?

5min

16.

Rethinking - The Best Way to Get Better at Fighting

1min

For decades, renowned psychologists John and Julie Gottman have studied–and guided–healthy relationships. They share insights from their research–and their marriage–on how to avoid a relationship apocalypse, handle conflict, and make love last. Their latest book, “The Love Prescription” is out now, and Adam has a field day getting them to demonstrate the differences between good and bad fights.
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ReThinking

The science of healthy relationships with John and Julie Gottman

Episode guests

Types of Relationship Communication: the Gottmans and marriage.

Ask profound questions and find compromise

Understanding Each Other's Triggers

Rethinking - The Best Way to Get Better at Fighting

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