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Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

Eps 413: Nonviolent communication with Dr. Matthew Lederman

Aug 28, 2023
Dr. Matthew Lederman, a communication specialist, discusses nonviolent communication, common unmet needs in children, staying connected when triggered, rebuilding trust, meeting our own needs for health and safety. Takeaways: nonviolent communication, being resourced, communicating with adolescents, common unmet needs in children, staying connected when triggered, rebuilding trust, welcoming feedback from our kids, why teens pull away from their parents, meeting our own needs for health and safety.
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Quick takeaways

  • Nonviolent communication emphasizes connection, empathy, and equality of needs over simply conveying messages.
  • Parents need to prioritize self-care, be present, and collaborate with their teens to address their needs.

Deep dives

The Power of Non-Violent Communication in Parent-Teen Relationships

Non-violent communication (NVC) focuses on the intention and connection behind our words and actions, rather than just the communication itself. It involves shifting our mindset towards empathy, equality of needs, and fostering quality connections. By prioritizing connection and understanding, parents can improve relationships with their teens. NVC encourages parents to check in with themselves regularly, to identify their feelings and needs, and to practice self-care. It also emphasizes the importance of building trust, being present, and collaborating with teens to address their needs. Repairing and healing relationships requires time, consistency, and a focus on empathetic connection.

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