The One Inside: An Internal Family Systems (IFS) podcast

IFS and Shame and Guilt with Martha Sweezy

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Sep 29, 2023
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INSIGHT

Shame vs. Guilt

  • Shame is a global assessment of personal value, while guilt assesses behavior.
  • Guilt prompts repair, especially in relational contexts, making it useful for mending social tears.
INSIGHT

Maladaptive Guilt

  • Maladaptive guilt arises when pursuing normal goals, despite others' disapproval.
  • Survivor's and separation guilt are common types, inhibiting personal growth.
ANECDOTE

Guilt and Phone Calls

  • Tammy Sollenberger sometimes feels guilty for not calling her mom enough.
  • She suggests calling to appease guilt, but acknowledges it's not always a significant sacrifice.
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