#072: Cyndie Spiegel — Writing NonFiction, Microjoys, Finding Joy in Difficult Times & Navigating Transitions
Aug 26, 2023
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Cyndie Spiegel, author of "Microjoys: Finding Hope", dives into navigating life’s transitions and cultivating joy in difficult times. She shares her journey from the fast-paced fashion industry to seeking deeper fulfillment through personal interests like yoga. Cyndie discusses the craft of nonfiction writing and how her concept of microjoys transformed into a book. With reflections on community-building and letting go, she emphasizes the importance of connection and cherishing moments of joy amidst challenges.
Cyndie Spiegel highlights the concept of microjoys, which are small moments of happiness that persist amidst life's challenges and grief.
The importance of storytelling as a means to connect with others, sharing personal narratives that foster community and understanding.
Her transition from the fashion industry to writing exemplifies the need for authenticity and personal integrity in pursuing one's passions.
Deep dives
Exploring Microjoys
Microjoys represent easily accessible moments of joy that persist regardless of difficult circumstances. The concept emerged from personal experiences, particularly during times of grief and loss, such as the tragic murder of the author's nephew and the subsequent death of her mother. These small, joyful instances are crucial as they allow individuals to hold both joy and sorrow simultaneously, highlighting the complexity of human emotions. By focusing on these moments, people can find respite in the face of ongoing challenges.
The Power of Storytelling
Storytelling serves as a fundamental aspect of connecting with others and navigating personal experiences. The author recounts her family’s history of storytelling, emphasizing how it shaped her understanding of conveying emotions and experiences. This connection to storytelling played a pivotal role in her writing process, allowing her to create relatable narratives that resonate with readers. By sharing personal anecdotes, she fosters a sense of community and belonging among her audience.
Transitioning Career Paths
The author transitioned from a lengthy career in the fashion industry to pursuing a deeper understanding of herself through practices like yoga and positive psychology. This shift was catalyzed by a realization of the importance of authenticity and personal integrity in her work. The turning point occurred during a fashion show incident that prompted her to reflect on her life choices and motivations. Ultimately, this led her to explore new avenues, including writing, which has become a central focus of her career.
Navigating Grief and Loss
Experiencing multiple significant losses within a short period profoundly impacted the author's perspective on life and joy. The unexpected deaths of her nephew and mother forced her to confront the depth of her grief and the importance of feeling all emotions rather than suppressing them. She acknowledges that the journey through loss is not linear and that it is essential to honor one's feelings authentically. This acknowledgment paved the way for recognizing microjoys, which coexist alongside sadness and loss.
Building Community and Connection
Throughout her journey, cultivating community has been a significant aspect of the author's work. She emphasizes the value of creating inclusive spaces where diverse voices can come together, particularly in her community initiative, Dear Grown Ass Women. Following a decision to sunset this community, she reflects on the importance of her experiences with it while expressing the need to follow her evolving passions. The author's journey underlines that while communities may change, the connections and lessons learned from them continue to influence personal growth.
Author Cyndie Spiegel (Microjoys: Finding Hope) on how she approaches moments of major transition and building a habit of recognizing joy even in the darkest times. We also talk about the craft of writing nonfiction and how her concept of microjoys grew from an idea to a book.
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SHOW SUMMARY
Cyndie Spiegel, author of Microjoys: Finding Hope (Especially) When Life Is Not Okay on how she approaches moments of major transition building a habit of recognizing joy even in the darkest times. We also talk about the craft of writing nonfiction, and how her concept of microjoys grew from an idea to a book.
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ABOUT CYNDIE SPIEGEL
Cyndie Spiegel is a born storyteller–turned–writer; she's an aspirational voice and an igniter of powerful conversation. She is a former adjunct professor at Parsons School of Design and Fashion Institute of Technology, and holds a masters of professional studies. Her books include Year of Positive Thinking: Daily Inspiration, Wisdom & Courage and Microjoys: Finding Hope (Especially) When Life Is Not Okay