#595 - 700k Q&A - Negative Self-Talk, Upcoming Live Tour & Ray Dalio

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Feb 27, 2023

Celebrate 700,000 YouTube subscribers with a lively Q&A session! Delve into overcoming negative self-talk and hear personal tips for managing nerves before big events. Explore the complexities of modern dating for young men and insights on social dynamics. Uncover the host's thoughts on health, including the importance of water quality. Plus, get a glimpse into future podcast aspirations and live tour plans. The conversation is packed with humor and reflections on self-worth, personal growth, and navigating contemporary life!

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ADVICE

Improve Communication

Think carefully about what you're trying to say in conversations and on podcasts.
Assess and review your performance to identify areas for improvement.

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Decoding the Gurus

Decoding the Gurus podcast offers valuable critiques, even if sometimes harsh.
Their ability to have fun while critiquing others is admirable.

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Impartiality in Interviews

Focus on genuine curiosity during interviews to overcome biases.
Prioritize learning over agreement.

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