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The Sabrina Zohar Show

17: Narcissism, avoidants and why anxious attachers date unavailable people with LMHC Jessica Baum

May 12, 2023
LMHC Jessica Baum joins the podcast to discuss narcissism, anxious and avoidant dynamics, and how to date and spot a narcissist. The speakers explore setting boundaries with narcissists, the impact of avoidance and anxious attachment styles on relationships, understanding developmental shame and healing childhood trauma, avoiding responsibility in relationships, neurodivergent dating, the importance of eye contact and being rude, and techniques for managing anxiety in dating.
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  • Understanding the difference between narcissism and avoidance in neurodivergent relationships helps in navigating dynamics and setting boundaries.
  • Therapy and knowledge of attachment theory are essential in healing attachment issues and promoting personal growth.

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Understanding Narcissism and Avoidance

The podcast episode delves into the difference between narcissism and avoidance in neurodivergent relationships. The speaker explains that narcissism is often rooted in early developmental wounds, leading to a lack of core sense of self. Narcissists rely on external validation to feel special and manipulate their surroundings to avoid dealing with their inner world. On the other hand, avoidance often stems from a fear of intimacy, causing individuals to shut down and distance themselves emotionally. While both behaviors have their own impacts on relationships, the importance lies in understanding the underlying wounds and developing boundaries to navigate these dynamics.

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