The Gabby Reece Show

#286 This Conversation Helped Me Confront My Past w/ Dr. Richard Schwartz

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Sep 16, 2024
In this enlightening discussion, Dr. Richard Schwartz, the innovator behind the Internal Family Systems model, delves into healing emotional wounds by understanding our internal 'parts.' He shares techniques for cultivating self-compassion and mindfulness that empower listeners to face their inner conflicts. The conversation reveals how IFS can transform family dynamics and deepen emotional awareness, even in parenting. A live demonstration with Gabby showcases the therapeutic process, making this episode a heartfelt exploration of self-discovery and growth.
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INSIGHT

Mind As Multiple Parts

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) views the mind as multiple sub-personalities called parts that hold burdens from past trauma.
  • Healing happens by getting curious and compassionate toward parts rather than trying to eliminate them.
ADVICE

Shift Focus In Conflict

  • In couples or family conflict, turn attention inward and ask "what part of me is triggered?" instead of blaming others.
  • Then access your Self (capital S) to speak from calm curiosity and invite protectors to relax.
ADVICE

Teach Parts To Kids

  • Teach children IFS language and curiosity early by making parts visible and normalizing self-compassion.
  • Use books, workbooks, and simple exercises to bring IFS out of the therapy room into families.
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