Loneliness, Addiction and Connection with Nick Jonsson

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Oct 6, 2025

Niklas Jonnson, a bestselling author and executive coach, shares his powerful journey through loneliness and addiction. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and connection in overcoming these struggles. The conversation dives into practical strategies for building relationships and creating accountability systems, while also highlighting the risks of modern habits like social media. Niklas advocates for replacing harmful coping mechanisms with meaningful activities and encourages finding supportive communities to foster resilience and recovery.

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ANECDOTE

Hidden Loneliness Led To Major Life Changes

Niklas Jonnson hid his loneliness and withdrew at work, which led him to resign and file for divorce.
He later realized he should have asked for help and been vulnerable with his boss and colleagues.

INSIGHT

Stories In Your Head Become Reality

Catastrophizing small uncertainties turned into a full-blown narrative for Niklas and drove his decisions.
He resigned to control an imagined outcome rather than face possible, solvable mistakes.

ADVICE

Practice Vulnerability In Safe Steps

Start practicing vulnerability small and in safe one-on-one settings with trusted people.
Ask permission to share, set confidentiality boundaries, and expand the vulnerability muscle over time.

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Hey team!

Today I'm talking with Nick Jonsson, a best-selling author, executive coach, and co-founder of Executives' Global Network. Nick is the author of Executive Loneliness: The 5 Pathways to Overcoming Isolation, Stress, Anxiety & Depression in the Modern Business World. His work focuses on helping leaders tackle isolation, burnout, and addiction while finding healthier, more sustainable ways to succeed.

Now I realize that doesn't seem particularly ADHD focused, but I thought that this would be a good interview to take because adults with ADHD have a substantially increased risk of substance use disorders. And so while Nick's work doesn't specifically cover ADHD, there is still a lot that you can glean from it.

In our conversation, Nick shares his own journey through loneliness, denial, and alcohol addiction, and how vulnerability and connection became essential tools for his recovery. We dig into practical strategies for opening up in safe spaces, replacing harmful coping mechanisms with meaningful activities, and creating accountability systems that support long-term well-being. We also touch on how social media and other modern habits can quietly feed into loneliness, and what it takes to build resilience against them.

If you'd life to follow along on the show notes page you can find that at HackingYourADHD.com/248

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This Episode's Top Tips

Frame recovery as replacement, not deprivation. When looking to break out of unhealthy coping mechanisms, be they alcohol, social media, or some other addiction, deliberately plan what will give you that same connection without the negative costs. Having planned positive alternatives like exercise, hobbies, or group activities can make all the difference in following through with your intentions.
Watch out for the "gray zone" of addiction; you don't need to wait until hitting rock bottom to start changing habits. If you are questioning your relationship with alcohol, social media, or other damaging habits, take the time to reflect on what is really driving those habits. Remember, you don't have to make something worse before making it better.
When you can, volunteering in support groups or mentoring others not only helps them, but it can also reinforce your own sense of belonging and purpose.