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The Terri Cole Show

589 Finding Joy in Relationships with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

Feb 29, 2024
Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, a psychologist and couples therapist, discusses her revealing book on relationship dynamics. She shares her experiences with high-functioning codependency and the journey towards interdependence. The conversation highlights the importance of emotional responsibility, boundary-setting, and understanding pursuer-defender dynamics in relationships. Listeners learn strategies for enhancing communication and fostering deeper connections, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and vulnerability to create healthier relational environments.
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  • Understanding and overcoming codependency requires individuals to establish healthy boundaries while maintaining their individuality and emotional autonomy.
  • Recognizing the pursuer-defender dynamic enhances emotional awareness, enabling couples to communicate effectively and foster deeper connections.

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Challenges of Codependency

Codependency is a significant relational pattern that often manifests as a struggle for balance between autonomy and dependency. Individuals in codependent relationships frequently subjugate their feelings and needs, leading to emotional neglect and resentment. The aim should be to cultivate interdependence, where both partners maintain their individuality while supporting each other’s growth. Recognizing that individuals are not responsible for their partner's emotions is crucial, and learning to establish healthy boundaries is essential in overcoming codependent behaviors.

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