Let's Get Real with Coach Menachem Reclaiming Masculinity in Modern Times: Understanding the Pressures, Struggles, & Importance of Men's Roles in Frum Jewish Families, Rabbi Shais Taub #140
Apr 24, 2023
02:17:19
Single Men's Perspective on Marriage
- Rabbi Shais Taub noticed a pattern of older single men choosing not to marry.
- They felt the institution of marriage disadvantaged men, offering little in return for lost freedom.
Invisible Men
- Many married men feel unheard, unseen, and pressured to hide their emotions.
- They lack outlets to discuss their struggles, leading to isolation and shame.
Finding Compassion Through Pain
- One man found solace in relating his emotional neglect to God's experience.
- He realized people only turn to God with needs, mirroring his own feeling of being valued only for providing.
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Introduction
00:00 • 4min
The Importance of Emotions
04:25 • 2min
How to Cope When You Feel Emotions Get Out of Hand
06:32 • 2min
How to Deal With Emotions
08:20 • 2min
Reclaiming Masculinity in Modern Times
10:06 • 1min
The Power of Technology
11:35 • 2min
The Fearless Approach to Hot Button Issues
13:40 • 2min
The Importance of Men's Emotional Struggles
15:14 • 2min
The Pattern of Giving Up Your Freedom
17:11 • 2min
The Language of Anti-Feminism
18:55 • 1min
The Dangers of Toxic Men
20:23 • 2min
The Reality of Invisible Men
22:03 • 2min
The Unrelatable Pressures of Being a Husband
23:40 • 2min
The Pain of Being a Money Maker
25:14 • 1min
The Importance of Compassion
26:44 • 1min
The Misogynistic Face of the Anti-Feminism
28:02 • 2min
The Importance of Male Pride and Self-Respect
29:55 • 2min
The Role of Men in Men's Pressure Today
31:44 • 2min
The Most Important Role of Men in Jewish Families
34:13 • 2min
How to Be Masculine
35:56 • 2min
What Is Masculinity?
38:12 • 1min
The Roots of Masculinity and Feminineity
39:40 • 2min
The Six Building Blocks of Creation
41:24 • 2min
The Masculine Role in Creation
43:04 • 2min
The Uniqueness of Feminineity
44:37 • 2min
The Importance of Being an Initiator
46:25 • 2min
What Is Masculinity?
48:08 • 2min
How to Catch Your Husband Messing Up
50:00 • 2min
Why Are So Few Rabunim Willing to Take a Stand Against What's Happening Out There?
51:56 • 3min
The Challenges Faced by Single Divorce Men
54:32 • 2min
Why Isn't This an Issue That Is Recognized as an Issue?
56:13 • 2min
The Importance of Sensitivity
58:18 • 2min
What Made Men So Fragile, What Happened to Coping Mechanisms?
59:52 • 2min
The Importance of Empathy in Men
01:01:39 • 2min
The Double Standard
01:03:12 • 2min
How to Understand Dretching Within a Mamashpia Makable Relationship
01:04:51 • 1min
The Importance of Emotional Stability in a Husband and Wife Relationship
01:06:20 • 2min
The Irony of Women Needing a Support System
01:08:00 • 2min
The Importance of Emotional Support in Marriage
01:09:47 • 2min
How to Provide for Your Husband When He's in a Situation Like This
01:11:32 • 2min
The Role of the Wife in Providing Emotional Support for a Husband
01:13:20 • 2min
What Do Men Have to Do?
01:15:02 • 2min
The Importance of Male Friends in Marriage
01:16:52 • 2min
The Importance of Emotional Support in Torah Mentorship
01:18:48 • 2min
The Importance of a Deep Relationship With Hashem
01:20:57 • 2min
The Importance of Listening to Your Wife's Emotions
01:22:37 • 2min
How to Talk to Your Wife in a Desperate Moment
01:24:39 • 2min
How to Give Your Sons the Opportunity They Need to Express Their Emotions
01:26:15 • 2min
The Importance of Hugging Your Boyfriend
01:27:55 • 2min
How to Give More Masculine Affection to Your Boys
01:29:28 • 1min
The Importance of Being There for Each Other
01:30:55 • 2min
The Importance of Male Compassion
01:32:39 • 1min
The Role of a Man in Our World
01:34:08 • 2min
The Role of a Man
01:35:58 • 1min
The Purpose of a Woman
01:37:25 • 2min
The Inversion of the Gender Role
01:39:14 • 2min
The Importance of Being an Emotional Provider
01:41:38 • 2min
The Importance of Emotional Currency in a Relationship
01:43:13 • 2min
The Gluttony Indulgence Cycle
01:44:53 • 2min
How to Negotiate a Complex Aspect of the Human Experience
01:47:13 • 1min
The Role of Moshpia in Men
01:48:42 • 2min
The Importance of Giving Intimacy
01:50:15 • 2min
How to Provide Intimacy to Your Wife
01:51:53 • 2min
How to Enter an Intimate Relationship as a Real Giver
01:53:35 • 2min
The Pain of a Firm Man
01:55:22 • 2min
The Importance of Emotional Intelligence
01:56:58 • 2min
The Crisis in the From World
01:58:53 • 2min
How to Sanctify
02:00:53 • 2min
The Different Levels of Selflessness
02:02:37 • 2min
The Politics of Intimacy
02:04:18 • 2min
The Double Standard
02:06:09 • 2min
The Role of Women's Feminineity in Today's Generation
02:08:03 • 2min
The Laws of Attraction
02:09:38 • 2min
How to Talk to Someone With an Emotional Struggle
02:11:27 • 2min
The Role of the Man in Emotional Support
02:13:06 • 2min
The Role of Women in the Modern Era
02:14:42 • 3min
Reclaiming Masculinity in Modern Times: Understanding the Pressures, Struggles, & Importance of Men's Roles in Frum Jewish Families Rabbi Shais Taub on Let's Get Real with Coach Menachem, Sunday April 23, 2023. #140