The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

A man writes, after the birth of my second child, I experienced a lot of emotional turmoil. When I tried to open up to my rosh Hashiva and my rebellion about it, they said that these feelings were for my wife to have, not for me. And now I don't find comfortable sharing my feelings with anyone. Just a different version of the same question. Yeah, we need total leadership is emotionally intelligent and compassionate.