The School of Greatness The Biggest Mistakes People Make In Relationships EP 1149
Aug 13, 2021
In a compelling discussion featuring Esther Perel, a renowned psychotherapist, James Sexton, a divorce lawyer, Lori Gottlieb, a relationship expert, and Katherine Woodward Thomas, a marriage and family therapist, the conversation dives into the pitfalls of relationships. They explore factors leading to failures, the myth of 'happily ever after,' and the crucial need for self-awareness. Listeners are encouraged to take emotional risks, engage authentically, and reflect on the complexities of love, intimacy, and conscious uncoupling for healthier connections.
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Relationship Challenges
- Key relationship challenges include indifference, neglect, microaggressions, and contempt.
- Contempt, where one partner feels degraded, is the most damaging.
Learned Relationship Patterns
- Relationship patterns often mirror those we learned in childhood.
- We may unintentionally replicate dynamics from our upbringing, leading to resentment and blame.
Maintaining Desire
- Prioritize seduction, mystery, and emotional risk-taking in long-term relationships.
- Create a playful, erotic space separate from daily responsibilities.
