Almost 30 778. Shan Boodram on Seduction, Self-Confidence + Keeping Sparks Alive in Love
Jul 1, 2025
Shan Boodram, a certified sex educator and host of Lovers by Shan, dives into the world of seduction, intimacy, and self-confidence. She shares insights on reigniting chemistry in long-term relationships and cutting through the cringe when flirting. Discover practical seduction tools from her MasterClass that empower self-expression and genuine connections. Shan emphasizes the significance of balancing confidence and vulnerability, reclaiming sexiness post-motherhood, and finding joy in dating apps. Embrace your feminine energy and flirt with life!
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Balancing Lust and Love
- When single, we have lust but want to make love; when partnered, we want lust but have love.
- Balancing fresh and familiar elements keeps relationships vibrant and exciting.
Tense First Kiss Moment
- Krista described a dark, tense car moment waiting for a first kiss that didn't happen due to her fear.
- That anticipation and uncertainty created a charged, memorable energy between them.
Own Your Natural Seduction
- Own the seductive traits you already possess rather than invent new ones.
- Remind yourself that your authentic self is naturally seductive and valuable.