Underrated/Overrated: ’90s Edition, Book Tours, and How to Menu: Kopitiam With Rachel Khong
Apr 22, 2024
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Author Rachel Khong joins Dave Chang and Chris Ying to discuss her novel 'Real Americans' and upcoming book tour. They explore Asian American stories, '90s trends, and creating a Malaysian brunch menu. The conversation covers family dynamics, writing a novel, and the culinary use of foams.
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Rachel shares the emotional turmoil of writing a novel, facing uncertainty and exhaustion in the editing process.
Cultural barriers in Asian families hinder open discussions about emotions and personal histories.
Listening to the audio book version post-writing leaves Rachel emotionally drained despite anticipation for feedback.
Deep dives
The Challenge of Writing a Novel Over Six Years
Rachel reflects on the challenging process of writing a novel over six years, highlighting the mental and emotional strain, the difficulty of starting each day with uncertainty about the progress, and the continuous cycle of editing and rewriting, culminating in a persistent feeling of uncertainty and exhaustion across the years.
Navigating the Lack of Communication in Asian Families
Rachel discusses the common lack of verbal communication in Asian families, noting the challenges of discussing feelings or engaging in therapy due to a cultural tendency to avoid such topics and the absence of open dialogue in familial interactions, emphasizing the cultural restraints that hinder discussions about emotions or personal histories.
The Emotional Rollercoaster of Completing a Book
Rachel shares her experience of listening to the audio book version of her novel after completion, revealing a mix of exhaustion and disconnection from the work, the overwhelming feeling of being consumed by the book during the writing process, and a sense of being emotionally drained by the entire journey, despite the anticipation for its release and readers' feedback.
Discussion of Childhood Influence on Parenting Styles
Growing up, the podcast hosts reflect on how their fathers' influence impacts their parenting. One host shares an incident involving meltdowns over learning methods, reminiscent of their dad's impatience. The discussion delves into language learning struggles with children and parental reactions mirroring their own upbringing, leading to humorous recollections of being called 'stupid kid.'
Nostalgic Reflections on Family Dynamics
The podcast team reminisces about generational household habits and behavior quirks passed down. From reusing tea bags to clearing out fridges, they explore how childhood experiences shape adulthood actions. Stories of cleansing fridges, muttering like parents, and sentimental attachments to items portray humorous yet relatable family dynamics and the cyclical nature of parental traits emerging in their own lives.
Dave is joined by Chris Ying and Rachel Khong to discuss Rachel’s latest novel, 'Real Americans,' and her upcoming book tour. The trio then play Underrated/Overrated with ’90s trends before going into a How to Menu of Kopitiam in New York’s Lower East Side.
Topics covered include learning parents’ stories as an Asian American, Dave’s love of 'The Matrix,' and the culinary definition of a foam.