The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle

You Were Taught to Feel Unworthy — But You Can UNLEARN It

Jul 30, 2025
Explore how childhood trauma impacts romantic relationships and the journey towards healing attachment wounds. Discover the importance of self-respect in dating, along with strategies to recognize healthy partnerships. Unpack ways to distinguish genuine love from fleeting attractions, while learning to set boundaries that promote self-worth. Embrace empowerment and gain insights on releasing unhealthy connections for fulfilling, lasting relationships. This enlightening discussion is packed with actionable advice for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of love.
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INSIGHT

Trauma Shapes Attractions

  • Attraction to unavailable partners comes from deep attachment wounds.
  • These patterns are often unconscious and very difficult to control.
INSIGHT

Betrayal Activates Love Unhealthily

  • Trauma can make betrayal trigger love, a harmful paradox in attachment.
  • This biological and emotional glitch drives repeated attraction to unfaithful partners.
ADVICE

Avoid Hookups For Love

  • Avoid hookups and situationships if you want a loving, committed relationship.
  • Such casual relationships occupy emotional space and drain your energy, dimming your true self.
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