In a captivating discussion, John Maxwell, a New York Times bestselling author and founder of Maxwell Leadership, explores the traits that make individuals irresistible. He emphasizes the power of vulnerability in leadership, distinguishing magnetic leaders from toxic ones. Maxwell highlights the importance of building genuine connections, driven by curiosity and service. He shares personal anecdotes about overcoming assumptions in leadership and the critical role of effective communication. The conversation encourages listeners to focus on meaningful relationships and lifelong personal growth.
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Marriage Advice
Commit 100% to marriage, not 50/50, because it's hard work.
Respect each other's individuality and give space for personal growth.
insights INSIGHT
Be a Plus
Irresistible people have joy for life and intentionally add value to others' lives.
Focus on being a "plus" in people's lives, lifting them up rather than leaning on them.
question_answer ANECDOTE
Networking for Success
Lewis Howes overcame career uncertainty by interviewing successful people on LinkedIn.
He became a valuable connector by focusing on others' needs and leveraging his network.
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Atomic Habits
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How to Win Friends and Influence People
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21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership
John C. Maxwell
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The Greatness Mindset
Unlock the Power of Your Mind and Live Your Best Life Today
Lewis Howes
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The 16 Undeniable Laws of Communication
Apply Them and Make the Most of Your Message
John C. Maxwell
In 'The 16 Undeniable Laws of Communication,' John C. Maxwell shares practical strategies to enhance public speaking skills, focusing on connection, credibility, and delivering impactful messages. The book is designed to help individuals overcome fear and ineffectiveness in communication, making it suitable for various settings from small groups to large audiences.
John C. Maxwell is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, speaker, coach and leader who has sold more than 34 million books in fifty languages. He is the founder of Maxwell Leadership—the leadership development organization created to expand the reach of his principles of helping people lead powerful, positive change. Maxwell’s books and programs have been translated into 70 languages and have been used to train tens of millions of leaders in every nation. His work also includes that of the Maxwell Leadership Foundation and EQUIP, non-profit organizations that have impacted millions of adults and youth across the globe through values-based, people- centric leadership training.
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The character traits and habits that make people irresistible, understanding what draws others towards them effortlessly.
The essential qualities that set exceptional leaders apart from their average counterparts, gaining insights into the traits that drive exceptional leadership.
The significance of vulnerability in effective leadership and how leaders can effectively balance vulnerability with maintaining their authority.
Clear distinctions between magnetic leadership and toxic leadership.
Key principles and strategies in leadership that are often overlooked or underrated, providing you with a deeper understanding of what truly drives successful leadership.
The School of Greatness 
