Become an Active Operator of Your Nervous System | Deb Dana
Nov 22, 2023
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Trauma clinician Deb Dana discusses polyvagal theory and practical tools for regulating the nervous system. Topics include understanding the nervous system, social structures, responsibilities for self and others' nervous systems, reshaping patterns of self-protection, micro moments of ventral regulation, restorying and the vagal break, the vagus nerve pathways, and shameless book plugging.
Polyvagal theory helps us understand and regulate our nervous system's responses and patterns.
Small actions like savoring micro moments of regulation and engaging in breath practices can reshape our nervous system.
Understanding our own and others' nervous systems fosters healthier connections and communication, transforming relationships for the better.
Deep dives
Understanding Polyvagal Theory and the Nervous System
Polyvagal theory explains how our nervous system works and influences our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It is composed of three organizing principles: hierarchy, neuroception, and co-regulation. Hierarchy refers to the different states our nervous system can be in, such as the regulated ventral state, the fight-or-flight sympathetic state, or the shutdown dorsal state. Neuroception is the nervous system's way of listening and gathering information from our bodies and the environment to determine whether it's safe or dangerous. Co-regulation is the biological need to connect with others and experience safe interactions, which helps regulate our nervous system. Understanding polyvagal theory helps us become more aware of our nervous system's responses and be active operators in regulating and managing it.
Changing Our Nervous System through Small Actions
We have the ability to change our nervous system's patterns and responses through small actions repeated over time. One way is by noticing and savoring micro moments of regulation, or glimmers, that occur throughout the day. These moments of calm and well-being can be cultivated and recognized with mindfulness. Breath practices, exercises, and engaging in playfulness also help exercise and increase the efficiency of the vagal break, a ventral vagal circuit that regulates heart rate and transitions between active and calm states. Engaging with music can also affect our nervous system, as different songs can elicit different emotional and physiological responses. By intentionally engaging with these practices and experiences, we can reshape and rewire our nervous system towards greater regulation and well-being.
The Power of Understanding and Regulating Nervous Systems in Relationships
Polyvagal theory highlights the crucial role of nervous systems in relationships and interactions. By becoming fluent in understanding our own nervous system and being curious about the nervous systems of others, we can foster healthier connections and communication. Recognizing cues of safety or danger and regulating our responses can transform relationships and promote healthier co-regulation. This understanding helps us shift from assumptions and judgments to compassion and curiosity. Additionally, recognizing the impact our own regulated or dysregulated nervous system has on the world allows us to take responsibility for our energy and influence, creating a more harmonious and supportive environment for ourselves and those around us.
Finding Regulation in the Nervous System
The goal is not to always be in the regulated state known as the ventral state, but rather to be able to recognize when we have moved out of regulation and find our way back to ventral. Ventral is a home that every human being has in their biology, even if they have experienced trauma. Practices like breath work, sighing, and noticing glimmers of OKness can help us access ventral and strengthen our nervous system's flexibility.
Understanding the Relationship Between State and Story
Our autonomic state influences the stories we tell ourselves about our experiences. By consciously exploring how a single experience can be interpreted through ventral, sympathetic, and dorsal states, we can recognize the power our state has in shaping our story. Restoring involves changing our state to bring about a new story, and practicing mindfulness, movement, and regulated breathing can all contribute to this process.