The School of Greatness How To Create Boundaries With A Narcissist w/Dr. Ramani Durvasula (PART 2) EP 1196
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Dec 1, 2021 
Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist and expert on narcissism, sheds light on misconceptions about narcissists and their impact on relationships. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing red flags and setting boundaries to protect oneself from toxic dynamics. The discussion also differentiates between narcissistic personality disorder and traits, highlighting the emotional struggles of victims. Dr. Ramani shares practical strategies for self-love and resilience, encouraging listeners to navigate relationships with greater awareness.
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Narcissists' Self-Perception
- Narcissists don't actually love themselves; they're driven by self-loathing and project their insecurities onto others.
- They live in a state of constant anxiety, anger, and victimhood, making it a miserable existence.
Vulnerability to Narcissism
- Athletes and entrepreneurs are at risk of falling for narcissists because they're doers used to fixing things with effort.
- This mindset makes it difficult to surrender and accept that some relationships can't be fixed.
Diminishing Success
- Lewis Howes shares how past partners reacted negatively to his successes, making it about their own lack of achievement.
- He realized healthy relationships involve mutual support and celebration, not insecurity.
