Alfie Brown, a comedian and podcaster, shares his amusing take on the trials of fatherhood and adulting. He reflects on the comedic failures of attempting to entertain kids at birthday parties and the amusing realization that his DIY skills have yet to improve. Alfie humorously explores the challenges of balancing fitness and parenting while sharing anecdotes about Halloween and hobbies like candle-making. He also discusses the impact of parenting on identity and mental health, all wrapped in his signature wit.
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Children's Party Horror
Alfie Brown compared a 7-year-old's Halloween birthday party, finding it more difficult than adult comedy gigs.
Children hit him after he performed silly laughs, adding to the stressful experience.
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Werewolf Family
Chris's business partner, Darren, and his family dressed as werewolves for Halloween, including their dogs.
Chris jokes about Darren's working-class background despite giving his kids "fancy" names like Ruben, Cooper, and Zara.
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Class Mobility and Comedy
Alfie Brown talks about his friend Vas's class mobility, from Hounslow to enjoying finer things.
He reflects on his own mother's class journey and how his comedy career ironically reversed his upward mobility.
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Alfie Brown is a comedian and a podcaster.
Adulting is hard. I had hoped to discover that Alfie, a dad of 3, would have worked out how to do it properly. But alas, no, it seems we are both condemned to flail around in the liminal purgatory of "just about getting by" for at least another few years.
Expect to learn why being a comedian doesn't mean that you can perform effectively as a compere for a 7 year old's birthday party, what it's like entering the world of fitness at 34, why my obsession with candles was cut short, at what point after becoming a father that your DIY skills improve and much more...
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