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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

502 - Help! My relationship is going TOO well! Listener Q&A

Oct 22, 2024
Listeners dive into the complexities of feeling overwhelmed when a relationship seems to be going too well. The importance of communication is emphasized, especially regarding sexual attraction among multiple partners. Strategies like mindfulness and open dialogue are suggested to manage anxiety and rekindle intimacy. The challenges of hierarchical versus egalitarian dynamics in polyamorous relationships are explored, alongside tips for fostering mutual understanding. A fascinating discussion on self-soothing techniques wraps up the insights.
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Quick takeaways

  • Navigating varying levels of sexual attraction among partners highlights the need for open communication and self-exploration to reduce guilt.
  • Anxiety about a seemingly perfect relationship can be managed through mindfulness practices and focusing on the positive aspects of the connection.

Deep dives

Navigating Sexual Attraction in Non-Monogamy

A listener grapples with increasing sexual attraction towards one partner while feeling guilty about it, particularly in a polyamorous context. The situation involves a nesting partner and a long-distance relationship, leading to reflections on sexual chemistry and emotional connections. The discussion highlights the natural ebb and flow of attraction, emphasizing that not all partners will evoke the same level of desire at all times. It suggests open communication and self-exploration to understand underlying feelings, which can reduce guilt and aid in fostering intimacy with both partners.

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