The Place We Find Ourselves

5 Attachment: What It Is and Why It Matters So Much

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May 7, 2018
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INSIGHT

Attachment Definition and Importance

  • Attachment is the emotional bond you develop with your closest relationships.
  • Secure attachment embodies hope; those with it expect close connection after relational ruptures.
INSIGHT

Importance of First Year and Attunement

  • Your first year had a profound impact on how you feel today, especially the creation of a secure attachment with mom through attunement.
  • Secure attachment develops when mom accurately reads her baby's internal state and acts accordingly.
ANECDOTE

The Still Face Experiment

  • The Still Face Experiment demonstrates that babies need active facial engagement from their mothers.
  • Babies get distressed when their mothers' faces become unresponsive, highlighting the importance of nonverbal attunement.
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