Marriage Therapy Radio

Ep 252 Keeping Monogamy Hot with Ashleigh Renard

Jan 24, 2023
Ashleigh Renard, a former figure skating coach and author of 'Swing', shares her insights on maintaining a sizzling monogamous relationship. She discusses the importance of communication and vulnerability, even in high-stress environments. Renard offers tips on enriching intimacy, exploring unconventional experiences to keep the spark alive. The conversation touches on navigating the complexities of desire and connection while embracing playful discussions about intimacy. Humor and personal anecdotes weave through the advice, ensuring a fresh perspective on love.
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ANECDOTE

From Skating Coach To Confessional Memoir

  • Ashleigh describes leaving skating coaching to write a racy memoir that revealed deep marital struggles.
  • She recounts escalating perfectionism, homeschooling, and feeling disconnected despite a good sex life.
ANECDOTE

Secret Experiment: Sex Clubs To Reconnect

  • Ashleigh explains the couple tried swinging and sex clubs as a secret high-difficulty experiment to rekindle connection.
  • Living the story was chaotic and painful but revealed communication gaps they needed to address.
ADVICE

Schedule A Clear Time For Sex

  • Choose a specific time window with your partner for sex to remove nightly uncertainty.
  • Make that plan practical (e.g., mornings vs evenings) and treat it as teamwork.
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