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You Won’t Believe How Many People Have This Sex Fantasy ft. Dr. Justin Lehmiller

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Feb 28, 2025
Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a research scientist at The Kinsey Institute and expert on human sexuality, joins the discussion on sexual fantasies and desires. They unveil the surprising prevalence of multi-partner scenarios, taboo desires, and kink. The conversation highlights the psychological layers of these fantasies, the impact of pornography, and the importance of communicating desires in relationships. They also delve into cuckolding and infidelity, emphasizing open dialogue as key to intimacy. Plus, learn about the health benefits of masturbation and its role in self-care.
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Gender Differences in Fantasies

  • Men fantasize more about multi-partner sex, non-monogamy, and taboo acts.
  • Women focus more on passion, romance, kink, and BDSM in their fantasies.
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Shame and Fantasy

  • Many experience shame about fantasies due to a lack of education on normal sexual desire.
  • Understanding the diversity of fantasies helps reduce shame and promotes acceptance.
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Fantasy vs. Reality

  • Fantasizing about something doesn't equate to wanting it in real life.
  • Factors like control and the inability to 'turn off' real-life scenarios influence this disconnect.
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