2934: Feeling Confused, Overwhelmed, or Lazy? by Tonya Lester on Pursuing Your Dreams and Getting Unstuck
Oct 12, 2023
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Tonya Lester, a psychotherapist, helps those feeling confused, overwhelmed, or lazy. The podcast explores topics such as overcoming procrastination and fear, tackling overwhelm, building momentum, and embracing consistency in pursuing goals.
Taking action, even if imperfect or mediocre, is crucial to overcoming confusion and gaining momentum in pursuing one's dreams.
Consistency in action and building good habits is more important than immediate results when pursuing career goals, as progress comes from actively doing the work.
Deep dives
Overcoming Obstacles and Starting Again
The podcast episode discusses the story of Annie, a professional photographer, who struggled to restart her career after a hiatus. She faced feelings of confusion, overwhelm, and laziness, unsure of where to begin or if she had the talent anymore. The episode highlights the importance of taking action, even if it feels imperfect or mediocre. By starting small and being consistent, Annie was able to overcome her fear and gain momentum in her career.
Action Begets Action
The episode emphasizes that taking action, even in small ways, is crucial to breaking the cycle of indecision and procrastination. Instead of getting stuck in overthinking and worrying about where to start, it is important to simply pick something and get moving. Making progress and course-correcting along the way is more valuable than getting hung up on perfection.
Consistency and Process
Consistency is highlighted as a key factor for success. The episode stresses that focusing on consistent action and building good habits is more important than immediate results. By dedicating regular time to her photography, Annie was able to regain her skills, build confidence, and eventually attract opportunities. The episode also cautions against relying too much on external resources or purchases, as true progress comes from actively doing the work.
Tonya Lester helps you if you're feeling confused, overwhelmed or lazy
Episode 2934: Feeling Confused, Overwhelmed, or Lazy? by Tonya Lester on Pursuing Your Dreams and Getting Unstuck
Tonya Lester, LCSW, is a psychotherapist in Brooklyn, NY. She graduated from New York University with a Master's degree in Social Work. Her post-graduate training includes a fellowship at Psychoanalytic Theory at the Institute for Psychoanalytic Theory and Research (IPTAR) and supervised practice in Psychodynamic Therapy under Drs. C.E. Robins and John Broughton. She completed training in IFS with Dick Schwartz, Nancy Sowell, and Pam Krause. Her training in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) was with John Forsyth, Ph.D. She studied RLT with its creator, Terry Real.