The Couples Therapist Couch 227: Beyond Fairy Tales with Dr. Mark Karris
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Jan 30, 2025 Dr. Mark Karris, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author of "Beyond Fairy Tales," explores the complexities of relationships and couples therapy. He discusses Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and how common misconceptions about love can hinder meaningful connections. The conversation includes insights on attachment styles, fostering empathy, and the significance of compassion in communication. Mark also highlights innovative resources to make self-help more accessible, aiming to bridge gender gaps in relationship literature.
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Discovering EFT
- Dr. Mark Karris's passion for couples therapy ignited around 2010.
- This was after moving to San Diego and discovering the EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) community.
Integrative Approach
- Dr. Karris's book "Beyond Fairy Tales" prioritizes helpfulness over purism.
- It integrates various therapy models.
Gottman's Rejection
- John Gottman refused to endorse Karris's book due to the lack of research on negative cycles.
- Karris questions the importance of negative cycle understanding for secure relationships.