Mark Karris

Dr. Mark Karris, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author of "Beyond Fairy Tales," explores the complexities of relationships and couples therapy. He discusses Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and how common misconceptions about love can hinder meaningful connections. The conversation includes insights on attachment styles, fostering empathy, and the significance of compassion in communication. Mark also highlights innovative resources to make self-help more accessible, aiming to bridge gender gaps in relationship literature.

In this episode we speak with therapist, theologian and author, Mark Karris. For anyone going through a faith deconstruction, prayer is often near the top of the list of things we struggle to make sense of. And Mark is certainly no exception to this. He had the kind of traumatic childhood you’d only expect to see in a film. But despite all his prayers, and the prayers of his church, the situation steadily deteriorated. So we asked Mark why so often our prayers aren’t answered? How can a God of love observe such suffering without intervening? Why does God often seem to answer quite trivial prayers, and ignore the more significant ones? Mark has a fascinating take on all our questions, and proposes a hopeful, loving and grounded vision of prayer. After the interview Nomad hosts Tim Nash and Nick Thorley reflect on their own faith deconstruction and how it has radically redefined how they understand and practice prayer.  Interview starts at 17m 45s. If you want more from Nomad, check out our website, and follow us on Facebook, twitter and Instagram.  Nomad can only keep going because a small group of faithful listeners help us pay the bills. Our supporters gain access to the Nomad community - which manifests as Nomad Book Club and The Beloved Listener Lounge - and bonus episodes, such as Nomad Contemplations, Nomad Devotionals and Nomad Revisited. And you may find yourself the proud owner of a Beloved Listener mug! Head over to our Patreon page to donate in dollars and our PayPal members page to donate in pounds. You might also want to have a look at our blog, which we're now using to share the stories of the evolving faith of our podcast listeners. And if you're looking for other people to share this journey with, then register on our Listener Map and our Nomad Gathering Facebook page, and see if any other nomads are in your area.

Therapist Mark Karris discusses religious trauma and healing from oppressive beliefs like the doctrine of Hell, original sin, and a wrathful God. He shares therapeutic tools for healing, emphasizing self-compassion to counter damaging effects of oppressive religious teachings.