Mostly Dating How To Attract Better Matches & Master The Early Dating Stages with Logan Ury
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Feb 17, 2025 
Logan Ury, Director of Relationship Science at Hinge and author of How to Not Die Alone, shares insights from her role as a dating coach. She discusses how to navigate relationships over 55, the benefits of detailed dating profiles, and the unique tendencies that can impact dating success. Logan highlights tips for attracting better matches on dating apps, effective communication strategies for 'what are we' talks, and the importance of specificity in profiles. Her advice is both practical and eye-opening for anyone in the dating scene.
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Pam's Dating Transformation
- Logan Ury discusses Pam, a woman in her 70s on "The Later Daters", who initially focused on the past during dates.
- After coaching to be more present, Pam improved her dating experience by asking more questions and showing interest.
Flexibility in Older Dating
- Older daters can be more flexible about lifestyle and religion, as long-term considerations like children are less relevant.
- This flexibility can make finding a compatible partner easier.
Challenges for Older Daters
- Dating can be harder for older women due to men's shorter life expectancy and preference for younger partners, shrinking the pool of available men.
- Accumulated "baggage" like past experiences, adult children, or debt can also pose challenges.
