

Mostly Dating
Carleigh
Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.
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Oct 13, 2025 • 48min
Subtle Signs They See A Future With You
Welcome back! Today we're kicking off with my weekly "what I'm loving" rundown, which this week is the Evvy at-home Vaginal Microbiome test.Next, I share my list of subtle signs they see a future with you (both for early dating and for people in a relationship thinking about the long term future).Our listener questions are from a woman who is frustrated that the guy she is dating never initiates deep conversations. Next up we hear from a listener who is having trouble with comparing everyone she dates to her situationship that recently ended. We wrap up with a run club meet-cute gone (potentially) wrong, a woman who thinks her date is drinking too much, and a reality check for a woman who was ghosted.Intro ends at 10:03As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.

Oct 6, 2025 • 42min
5 Uncomfortable Conversations You Should Have Before Getting Engaged
Welcome back! Today we're kicking off talking about my thoughts on The Life Of A Showgirl (obviously) and a new product launch I'm super excited about.Our listener questions are from a man who isn't sure about whether he wants to propose to his girlfriend, another listener who isn't sure if she's in a rebound relationship, and a woman who is sick of being the planner in her relationship.Listener questions start at 8:30.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.

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Sep 29, 2025 • 44min
How To Flirt & Build Chemistry On Early Dates
Discover early signs that a relationship might not be right, even when everything seems fine on the surface. Learn practical tips on flirting and building chemistry during dates, including body language and playful touch. Navigate the tricky waters of social media and relationships, like why your partner might not be posting you online. Explore how to balance independence while getting closer, and tackle the challenge of moving beyond boring app conversations to real-life meetings. Plus, find out if friends with benefits can ever just be friends.

Sep 21, 2025 • 53min
Tough Love: Friendship Struggles & Ending Your Situationship
Welcome back! Today's solo dives into situationships, being single and feeling like you're no one's top priority, what to do about your partner's financial debt, and more.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.

Sep 15, 2025 • 47min
The Unwritten Rules Of Dating A Coworker
Welcome back! Today's episode starts with a rundown of what's been new with me, plus what I'm loving right now (these Shokz headphones for running).Listener questions start at 25:25. The first question is from a woman who isn't sure if she should have the DTR talk or wait things out. Next, we hear from a woman whose boyfriend keeps getting texts from his ex.We wrap things up with a rundown on workplace romances.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.

Sep 8, 2025 • 48min
Key Conversations To Have Early On In a Long Distance Relationship
Welcome back!! After a brief and unexpected break, we're back with a solo episode. Today we're chatting about how to stop overthinking things in the early stages of dating someone new (+ how to keep the momentum going when you can't be together), key conversations for long distance relationships, hot and cold behavior in dating, and balancing different levels of ambition in a relationship.**Don't care about my intro thoughts? Listener questions begin at 6:26.P.S: Please excuse the low sound quality, I did not want to wait any longer to release this episode so I had to record this one remotely.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.

Aug 11, 2025 • 45min
Signs They’re Going To Say “I Love You” Soon
Welcome back! Today we’re talking about timelines for saying “I love you” and signs they're falling in love with you. Next, we dissect a longer question from a 31-year-old male who found out his girlfriend of two months hadn’t deleted her dating apps. We wrap up with rapid fire questions about the guidelines for asking “permission” to propose and how to decide if you should keep going on dates with someone or call it when there’s no spark but all green flags.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.

Jul 28, 2025 • 40min
Conversations Every Couple Needs To Have 2 Years Into Dating
Explore the emotional rollercoaster of dating two years in! Discover how to spot red flags versus past relationship baggage. Learn about the importance of self-care and navigating alone time without losing your individuality. Tune in for tips on maintaining communication about boundaries and managing relationship challenges when job relocations are on the horizon. This conversation is packed with insightful listener experiences and practical advice to enhance your dating journey!

Jul 21, 2025 • 51min
How To Be More Approachable This Summer
Welcome back! Today we're starting off by chatting about how to meet people IRL and how to be more approachable.Next, we discuss a listener question about what to do when you feel like you're growing a lot in your relationship and your partner isn'tOur next listener question is from a woman who works from home from the same apartment as her boyfriend and is feeling overstimulated.Lastly, we discuss a male listener who is bothered by his girlfriend repeatedly making little digs at him in front of friends.We wrap up the episode with a few rapid fire listener questions.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.

Jul 14, 2025 • 53min
Can A Drunk Hookup Turn Into Something More?
Welcome back! Today we're starting off by chatting about signs your relationship needs better communication and how to have better communication early on in a relationship.Next, we discuss a listener question about how to handle different communication styles in a relationship, specifically in arguments.Our next listener question is from a woman who has been dating a guy for three months and recently saw he was active on Hinge.We wrap up the episode with a few rapid fire listener questions about avoidant attachment styles, getting back with an ex, and run club hookups.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.