

Mostly Dating
Carleigh
Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.
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May 12, 2025 • 48min
Stop Waiting For A Relationship For Your Life To Start
Open communication is crucial when considering engagement. Discover key conversations to have with your partner before taking that big step. Personal fulfillment should be prioritized before diving into relationships. The podcast tackles insecurities and the complexities of workplace romances. Additionally, it discusses how to evolve casual connections into meaningful relationships and keep the spark alive in long-term commitments. Tune in for insights on adapting friendships amid changing social dynamics!

May 5, 2025 • 42min
Is Comparison Killing Your Friendships?
Welcome back! Today we're doing things a little differently. In this solo episode, Carleigh introduces six new segments:"what should I say?" where a listener asks what to say to their partner, friend, family member, coworker, etc. in a certain situation."keep going or call it?" where a listener describes their scenario and ask whether they should stay in a relationship/go on another date/continue a friendship/etc."expanders" dating/relationship success stories to help be each other's expanders"a letter to my younger self" where a listener writes the advice they'd tell their younger self about dating/life"friendship files" specific to friendship dilemmas/conflicts"not proud of it" anonymous confessionals of the things we do that we wish we didn'tAs always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.Ready to Level Up Your Dating Game? It’s time to make dating exciting again with First Round’s On Me! Discover real, meaningful connections that go beyond the small talk. Grab a FREE month of FROM’s premium Terracotta subscription with the code MOSTLYDATING.

Apr 28, 2025 • 49min
The Best Boundaries To Set On Early Dates + How To Do It
Welcome back! Today's episode is all about *boundaries*: how to set boundaries in early dating, what boundaries you should set for a relationship that lasts, signs you need to set better boundaries, and what to do when someone isn't respecting your boundaries.We also chat about green flags in an argument with your significant other and we answer a wide range of listener questions about dating and relationships.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here.Ready to Level Up Your Dating Game? It’s time to make dating exciting again with First Round’s On Me! Discover real, meaningful connections that go beyond the small talk. Grab a FREE month of FROM’s premium Terracotta subscription with the code MOSTLYDATING.

Apr 21, 2025 • 48min
The Biggest Red Flag In Any Relationship
Welcome back! In today’s solo episode I talk about not feeling seen, heard, or understood in your relationship, how to get back to your authentic self, and what to do when you feel like you're constantly putting on an act in relationships, friendships, etc.We also talk about things you should know before defining the relationship, advice for meeting the family, and more,As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here.Ready to Level Up Your Dating Game? It’s time to make dating exciting again with First Round’s On Me! Discover real, meaningful connections that go beyond the small talk. Grab a FREE month of FROM’s premium Terracotta subscription with the code MOSTLYDATING.

Apr 14, 2025 • 54min
The Best Timeline For Getting Over A Breakup
Welcome back! In today’s solo episode I talk about timelines for breakups, how to know when you're ready to get back out there, and what to do when you don't feel ready at all.I also discuss ways to get to know someone better without just asking questions and more types of dates you should always go on before defining the relationship, and answer listener questions on sharing a dog with your ex, going to couple's therapy, and more.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here.Ready to Level Up Your Dating Game? It’s time to make dating exciting again with First Round’s On Me! Discover real, meaningful connections that go beyond the small talk. Grab a FREE month of FROM’s premium Terracotta subscription with the code MOSTLYDATING.

Apr 7, 2025 • 51min
How To Navigate Misaligned Timelines in Relationships, with Ilana Dunn
Welcome back! Today we're chatting with Ilana Dunn, dating coach and host of the hit podcast Seeing Other People.We chat about:How to deal with misaligned timelines in relationshipsWhat to do when you have no idea what someone is looking for in datingConversations you should have before moving in togetherHow to continue getting to know your partner in a long term relationship& more!As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here.Ready to Level Up Your Dating Game? It’s time to make dating exciting again with First Round’s On Me! Discover real, meaningful connections that go beyond the small talk. Grab a FREE month of FROM’s premium Terracotta subscription with the code MOSTLYDATING.

Mar 31, 2025 • 1h 9min
How To Use Astrology To Optimize Your Wellness & Relationships with Erica Stein
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Erica Stein, health coach, wellness astrologist, and host of the Courageous Wellness Podcast.Erica breaks down all the elements of the astrological birth chart and how to use it to optimize your wellness and your relationships. Listen along as she gives Carleigh a deep dive into her own chart and learn what aspects of your chart to use for insights into your ideal partner and best relationship.Find Erica on Instagram @courageouswellness and @wellnessastrology to learn more about booking a reading with her.As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here.Ready to Level Up Your Dating Game? It’s time to make dating exciting again with First Round’s On Me! Discover real, meaningful connections that go beyond the small talk. Grab a FREE month of FROM’s premium Terracotta subscription with the code MOSTLYDATING.

Mar 24, 2025 • 51min
Sarafiena Watkins Tells All: Life Before, During, & After The Bachelor Season 29
Welcome back! You may remember her from her famous “my mom’s watching” line on The Bachelor Season 29. Sarafiena Watkins quickly became a fan favorite this year, and today she’s joining Carleigh to spill all the tea.we chat about:Dating in NYC & Sarafiena’s dating life before the bachelor.What led her to apply for the show (and what the process was like)Her initial impression of Grant and of the other womenThe friendships she formed on the show (yes, we address the drama too)The moment Sarafiena fell for GrantMoving on after having her heart broken on TVWhere she is in her dating life now (+ whether her DMs are open 👀)& a lot of great listener questionsFollow Sarafiena at @sarafienawatkins, and of course tune in tonight 3/24 for The Bachelor finale. As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here.Ready to Level Up Your Dating Game? It’s time to make dating exciting again with First Round’s On Me! Discover real, meaningful connections that go beyond the small talk. Grab a FREE month of FROM’s premium Terracotta subscription with the code MOSTLYDATING.

Mar 17, 2025 • 49min
6 Types Of Dates You Should Always Go On Before Defining The Relationship
Explore the six essential types of dates that can deepen connections before defining a relationship. The discussion includes who should take charge of planning dates and the pitfalls of seeking validation on dating apps. Listen in as the emotional aftermath of ghosting is dissected, along with tips on navigating relationship dynamics. Plus, the complexities of gift-giving are humorously tackled, questioning whether gifts indicate affection or are a sign of love bombing. Tune in for practical advice and relatable anecdotes!

Mar 10, 2025 • 1h 1min
A Wakeup Call To Break Your Dating Patterns & Elevate Your Relationships, with Sabrina Zohar
Sabrina Zohar, a dating and relationship expert and host of The Sabrina Zohar Show, shares her transformative journey from past dating struggles to finding healthier connections. She opens up about crafting authentic conversations to gauge emotional availability and reflects on the importance of accountability in dating patterns. Sabrina offers real, actionable tips for anxious daters, delves into the psychology behind attraction, and emphasizes the necessity of self-awareness and clear communication for fostering meaningful relationships.