

146: Why Your Conversations Fail and How to Fix Them with Charles Duhigg
Jun 20, 2025
Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and bestselling author, joins the discussion on transforming communication skills for better relationships. He explores the essentials of active listening and the difference between emotional and practical conversations. Duhigg highlights the importance of empathy in resolving conflicts and shares insights on building trust. Listeners will discover how to navigate both personal and professional interactions more effectively, fostering deeper connections and avoiding common pitfalls.
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Three Types of Conversations
- People often have different types of conversations simultaneously: practical, emotional, or social.
- Misinterpreting the conversation type prevents genuine connection and understanding.
Ask Deep Questions Boldly
- Ask 10 to 20 times more deep, meaningful questions than average to engage better.
- If no questions are returned, encourage the other person to ask and answer some yourself.
Use Metacommunication
- Engage in metacommunication by discussing how you communicate and clarify intentions.
- This approach builds trust and prevents misunderstandings in relationships.