Your 3-step guide to setting better boundaries at work | Nedra Glover Tawwab
Nov 13, 2023
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Relationship therapist and author Nedra Glover Tawwab shares strategies to establish better boundaries at work. Importance of setting boundaries, communicating needs, and three key steps to set effective boundaries are discussed. Personal experiences and positive impact of setting boundaries are emphasized.
Clearly communicate preferences and limits to foster a balanced work environment.
Setting and maintaining boundaries can improve productivity, prevent burnout, and inspire others to set their own boundaries.
Deep dives
The Importance of Setting Boundaries in Work and Personal Relationships
Setting boundaries in work and personal relationships is crucial for creating healthier dynamics. It takes courage to express our needs and expectations. Work boundaries are often neglected, leading to exhaustion and overwhelm. Clearly communicating our preferences and limits, such as availability hours, preferred communication methods, and feedback preferences, can foster a more balanced work environment. It is essential to set boundaries early on, even during job seeking or orientation, to establish a shared understanding. Consistency in sticking to these boundaries is key to ensuring they are respected.
The Positive Impact of Boundaries on Productivity and Well-being
Establishing boundaries can have a positive impact on both productivity and mental well-being. By setting limits, individuals can focus on their work and meet deadlines effectively. It also enables them to manage their time more efficiently and prevent burnout or overwhelm. Additionally, being upfront about personal boundaries, such as sending preliminary drafts or ending meetings on time, sets clear expectations and allows for better collaboration. Boundaries are not only beneficial for oneself, but they can also inspire others to set their own boundaries and improve overall work dynamics.
The Contagious Nature of Boundaries and the Long-term Benefits
Setting and maintaining boundaries is a continual process that becomes easier over time. When individuals consistently implement their boundaries, it influences others to follow suit. By doing so, individuals contribute to creating a healthier and more respectful work culture where the needs and boundaries of everyone are acknowledged and honored. Although it may be uncomfortable at first, the long-term benefits of establishing boundaries are worth the initial discomfort. Ultimately, healthy boundaries allow individuals to prioritize their work, manage expectations, and foster more fulfilling relationships in both personal and professional settings.
Know you should establish clear limits at work but not sure how to do it? Here are a few strategies from relationship therapist and author Nedra Glover Tawwab that can help you feel more empowered and less overwhelmed, both on and off the job. After the talk, Tawwab joins Modupe for a chat about how to set your own boundaries in the workplace.