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1KHO 400: The Skills We’ve Forgotten - Rebuilding Connection in a Lonely World with Dr. John Delony

Dec 20, 2024

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John Delony

In this engaging conversation, Dr. John Delony, a bestselling author focused on fostering meaningful connections, dives into the loneliness epidemic we face today. He highlights the importance of reclaiming lost skills in friendship and parenting through intentional relationships. Dr. Delony shares practical tools like 'Questions for Humans' to spark deeper conversations, emphasizing vulnerability and presence. They explore modern challenges, the significance of calming communication in parenting, and the quest for genuine connections in a tech-driven world.

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Intro

00:00 • 3min

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Rebuilding Connections: Tools for Communication in Modern Relationships

03:08 • 4min

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Rekindling Connections in a Screen-Driven World

07:02 • 11min

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Vinyl Revival and Parental Expectations

18:26 • 9min

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Navigating Modern Adolescence

27:15 • 13min

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Exploring Unique Careers and Practical Advertisements

39:55 • 3min

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Communication and Connection in Parenting

42:25 • 18min

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Embracing Connection and Parenting Wisdom

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Ken Coleman

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Amusing Ourselves to Death

Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business

Neil Postman

In this book, Neil Postman argues that the contemporary world is more akin to Aldous Huxley's 'Brave New World' than George Orwell's '1984'. Postman contends that television's emphasis on entertainment has led to a decline in rational discourse and the trivialization of politics, education, and religion. He contrasts the print-based culture of the 19th century with the televisual culture of the 20th century, highlighting how the medium of television inherently promotes incoherence and triviality, turning serious information into a form of entertainment.

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Of Boys and Men

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In 'Of Boys and Men,' Richard V. Reeves delves into the complex and urgent crisis of boyhood and manhood. He discusses how profound economic and social changes have led to many boys and men losing ground in education, the workplace, and family life. Reeves presents detailed research on the structural challenges, including lower academic performance, declining labor force participation, and the specific hardships faced by black boys and men. He argues that both conservative and progressive politicians have failed to provide effective solutions and offers fresh, innovative proposals such as delaying boys' entry into school, increasing male teachers, and improving vocational education. The book emphasizes the need for a positive vision of masculinity in a more equal world without compromising gender equality.

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The Disappearance of Childhood

Neil Postman

In 'The Disappearance of Childhood', Neil Postman posits that childhood as a distinct phase of life is a relatively recent invention, tied to the advent of print media which created clear divisions between children and adults. He argues that these divisions are being dissolved by the impact of television and other electronic media, which expose children to adult knowledge and themes, thereby threatening the concept of childhood. The book uses historical and demographic research to support this thesis and explores the implications of this trend on modern society and the notion of adulthood.

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The Boy Crisis

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Empire of the Summer Moon

Quanah Parker and the Rise and Fall of the Comanches, the Most Powerful Indian Tribe in American History

S.C. Gwynne

This book spans two astonishing stories. The first traces the rise and fall of the Comanches, who were the most powerful Indian tribe in American history, known for their exceptional horsemanship and warfare skills. The second story follows the remarkable narrative of Cynthia Ann Parker, a pioneer woman kidnapped by the Comanches in 1836, and her mixed-blood son Quanah, who became the last and greatest chief of the Comanches. The book covers a sweeping narrative that includes Spanish colonialism, the Civil War, the destruction of the buffalo herds, and the arrival of the railroads, providing a historical feast for anyone interested in the development of the United States.

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Practicing the Way

John Mark Comer

John Mark Comer's "Practicing the Way" offers a practical guide to spiritual formation, emphasizing the importance of intentional discipleship. The book blends ancient wisdom with contemporary relevance, providing readers with tools to cultivate a deeper relationship with God. Comer explores the concepts of being with Jesus, becoming like Jesus, and doing as Jesus did, offering a holistic approach to spiritual growth. The book encourages readers to engage in spiritual disciplines and cultivate a life of purpose and meaning. It's a valuable resource for those seeking to deepen their faith and live a more intentional Christian life.

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Hunt, Gather, Parent

What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans

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In Hunt, Gather, Parent, Michaeleen Doucleff travels with her three-year-old daughter to learn parenting strategies from families in Maya, Inuit, and Hadzabe communities. She discovers that these cultures raise children who are exceptionally kind, generous, and confident without the common problems seen in Western parenting. The book emphasizes a parenting approach based on cooperation, trust, and personalized needs rather than control and fear. Doucleff introduces the concept of TEAM parenting: togetherness, encouragement, autonomy, and minimal interference, and provides practical takeaways for parents to implement these strategies in their own lives.

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Building a Non-Anxious Life

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Beyond Winning

Negotiating to Create Value in Deals and Disputes

Bob Mnuchin

In one of the most powerful and transformative episodes of The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast, Dr. John Delony joins host Ginny Yurich for an unfiltered and deeply engaging conversation about the disconnection epidemic and how we can reclaim our lives through intentional relationships. Together, they discuss the skills society has lost—like fostering friendships, parenting with purpose, and building authentic community. Dr. Delony shares practical tools, including his "Questions for Humans" series, and explores how real connection requires vulnerability, presence, and intentionality. With humor, wisdom, and profound insights, this episode is a masterclass in creating a non-anxious life filled with meaning, resilience, and joy.

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