

One Thing with Hollie McNish on how to talk to our children about sex
7 snips Nov 4, 2022
Hollie McNish, a Sunday Times bestselling poet known for her evocative exploration of parenting and shame, joins the conversation. She emphasizes the importance of breaking the cycle of shame in discussing bodies and sex with children. Hollie shares her candid poetry, focusing on how open dialogue can protect kids and dispel misinformation. The duo reflects on generational silence around language, tackles uncomfortable feelings parents often face, and highlights the joys and challenges of motherhood, especially concerning safety and self-care.
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Name Body Parts And Explain Boundaries
- Tell children factual names and simple explanations about bodies and sex to normalise them.
- Explain boundaries, consent and legality plainly to protect and prepare them.
Shame Is Learned, Not Innate
- Children do not automatically inherit adult shame about sex and bodies; they learn it from us.
- Removing our shame prevents creating unnecessary fear and secrecy in kids.
A Daughter's Casual Reaction
- Hollie describes showing her daughter tampons, anatomy drawings and explaining masturbation and sex.
- The daughter giggled, called it 'too much information' and quickly returned to playing, unchanged.