154: Losing My Son: How Do You Rebuild After the Ultimate Loss?

Apr 11, 2025

Jeremy Montes, a Marine and father of three, shares his profound journey after losing his son, Jared Jr. He reflects on the unbearable pain of grief and how his passion for jiu-jitsu became a source of healing. Discussing resilience and hope, he emphasizes the significance of family and community support. Montes explores the power of prayer in coping with loss, focusing on the importance of maintaining a positive mindset. His heartfelt insights inspire listeners to navigate the darkest moments while cherishing deep connections with loved ones.

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Jared Jr.'s Battle

Jeremy Montez's son, Jared Jr., was a jiu-jitsu prodigy diagnosed with ALL at 18.
Despite battling cancer, Jared Jr. trained whenever possible, demonstrating resilience.

ADVICE

Jiu-Jitsu and Fitness as Outlets

Use jiu-jitsu and fitness as outlets for mental and physical development.
These activities provide a sense of presence and help overcome adversity.

ANECDOTE

Jiu-Jitsu as Therapy

After Jared Jr.'s passing, Jeremy Montez found solace in jiu-jitsu, using it to quiet his mind.
He cried on his way to training but found two hours of peace during practice.

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